Can Absence Make a Guy Get Butterflies Over You? Discover If It Can Really Make Him Miss You

Most women worry about getting too familiar and friendly with a guy
because it can make them lose interest in them after a while. This is
true in many cases when a woman gets too close too soon! In fact, if
there is a little distance maintained between you, it can actually
help to cement the relationship and make the guy fall even more in
love with you. Absence can make him wonder what's up!
If you are
always around, then he is never going to know what it means to miss
you. If you make yourself always available, he is bound to take you
and your loving for granted sooner or later. He might not even be
aware that he is doing that! However if you make yourself scarce for a
while, he is bound to wonder what's up and begin to miss you
dreadfully. He will begin to miss your presence
Once you are away, he
will find that your presence used to make his world different and
exciting. The fact that you are not around will make him wonder if he
did anything to displease or disappoint you in any way. He will have
butterflies in his stomach and this will prompt him to get you back.
He will start to wonder if you have changed your mind about him
The
very fact that you have decided to put some distance between you will
make him have fears and doubts as to whether your feelings for him
have changed or not! This feeling of unease is akin to the butterflies
in the stomach when he first met you. He will try and make sure that
you know his true feelings for you. He will begin to check up on the
relationship
As long as you are around him, he will be happy to keep
you where you are. He will probably feel safe and secure in the fact
that you are there with him. The moment you feel that he does not
really value your presence, you can go away for a while. He will start
to have a reality check and wonder if the relationship is being
jeopardized by his behavior with you. He will have butterflies in his
stomach and feel uneasy till you are back. He may admire the fact that
you are not needy
If you make up your mind to vacation alone and go
away for some time, it could also prove to him that you are not the
desperate, clingy and needy female who needs to hang on to her man!
This will make him admire you and in fact he might get butterflies
over you and wonder if you might get too far away! He might start to
chase you in earnest
The fastest way to make him serious about you
and get butterflies over you is to put some distance between you. Show
him that you are not willing to just be around him to make him feel
satisfied and secure in the knowledge that you love him. Go away and
make him miss you. He will begin to chase you all over again. It gives
you a chance to think things out and access the situation
Absence can
give both of you a chance to think things over seriously without being
stressed and pressurized by each other's presence. It will make him
realize how much you mean to him and vice versa.