Counseling - Life, Death and What Men Want in a Woman

Has the question regarding what men want in a woman ever been
answered satisfactorily for the average woman? I believe it has. The
problem is not in the answer, but in the acceptance of the answer.
It's simplicity often leaves women puzzled. There are tremendous
benefits for all women who learn what a healthy man wants in his
relationship with her.Happy wife, happy life. The happiness of his
wife is the key measurement a man uses to determine how well he's
doing as a mate. Simple enough. What happens if his wife is unhappy?
What if she is pretty happy about a lot of things that are happening
for her, but fails to share many of the details with him? This fact
about what men want in a woman is rather unsettling for countless
women. They have a lot more control in their relationship than they
feel comfortable with. This power is something that needs to be
managed wisely. The pressure can feel a little overwhelming at
times.If his wife continues to be unhappy for a prolonged period of
time, it's common for the husband to stop trying to please her. This
is the same if she is happy yet fails to tell him specifically what
she's happy about. Other pursuits that he is confident that he can
succeed at will capture more of his attention. The task of keeping his
wife happy is something he believes he is failing at.Happy is what a
man wants his girlfriend or wife to be. He wants to know that he's
being a good, solid mate.But what if the woman doesn't know what she
wants to accomplish with her life?This is a very challenging situation
that needs attention. For many women, this is an area that has gotten
pushed to the side in the rush of a busy life. Having clarity about
your dreams and aspirations is essential so you can convey them to
your husband. Without a clear idea of what brings you happiness, your
boyfriend or husband is likely to stop trying to please you. It's like
trying to hit a target that's always moving or running a race where
the finish line is always changing. Relationship failure is almost
certain under these conditions.The process of figuring out what you
want to do with your life, is an on-going process that evolves over
time. It's not a test. It's impossible for you to either pass or fail
by going through this self discovery process.The dating process can
also go more smoothly if this work has been done. You'll be better
equipped to find a match because you've thought through what's
important to you. Attracting men that lack direction is easy: simply
avoid putting in the time and effort to figure out your own sense of
purpose and direction for life.