Getting A Marriage Breakthrough By Taking The Gloves Off

Are you at the end of your marriage and feel that without a marriage
breakthrough you will be divorced? I'd like to offer you some help to
ease the pain and give you some hope about saving your
marriage.Marriage problems can be overwhelming and once your heart is
hardened and your mind is closed to any belief that your marriage can
be saved you need a marriage breakthrough. A marriage breakthrough to
me is when you discover what will allow your marriage to begin to
return to one in which you and your spouse enjoy being partners in.I
do understand that some folks are doubtful that a breakthrough is
possible when they have spent years trying to fix their marriage. So,
because of a beaten down and broken spirit and heart they throw in the
towel and call it quits. The sad thing is that so many of them were
probably almost at the point where a marriage restoration could
occur.So what's the one thing you have been doing over the last 6 to
12 months to help turn around your marriage? Has your frustration,
anger and resentment created a marriage and home filled with strife
and defensiveness? If so, such an environment is not conducive to
solving marriage problems.If you want to see a marriage breakthrough I
would recommend that you remove all tension and conflict for the next
30 days.I know you are thinking, "How in the world can we change our
attitude and behavior" over the next 30 days when all we have been
doing is fighting over money, work schedules, the children, and sex"
for the last 2 years?"Well, I have 2 simple questions for you to
ponder.
Do you want a marriage breakthrough?
Do you want to get a divorce?Ok, I hope your answers are "Yes" and
"No".Now, you do realize that all we are talking about here are
choices. You can choose to be respectful, humble, kind and considerate
to your spouse over the next 30 days or continue to argue, fight, and
be demeaning and disrespectful. This is admitting defeat and
committing to unhappiness and possibly divorce.If you want a marriage
breakthrough then put yourselves on an unselfish fast for the next 30
days. Both of you should commit to putting the interest and needs of
the other first. Listen, most couples just need to adjust their
perspectives on marriage and place the proper importance on meeting
each others needs.Next step?