How Do I Succeed in My Relationship With My Dream Guy? 7 Things You Need to Do Right Away

There is no such thing as an ideal guy or ideal girl. The fact is
that when you are in love you do tend to overlook your partner's
shortcomings and put him/her on the pedestal. If you feel that the guy
you are presently dating is the perfect guy it is because you too are
on the same wavelength. Here is all that you need to succeed in your
relationship.Take every thing with a pinch of saltAs time goes by you
will realize that he is not as perfect as you thought he was. Well, to
avoid future disappointments it is advisable that you consider him a
normal guy that has lots of plus points and few drawbacks. Once you do
this you will not put yourself under undue pressure to succeed.Don't
try to live up to others expectationsIf your guy is academically
inclined or is a great athlete then you don't have to match him step
for step. Instead identify your strengths and be proud of them. The
moment you try to live up to others expectations you are likely to
falter. Remember there is more to life than mere sports and
education.Believe in yourselfThe moment you attain a degree of self
confidence you will stop worshiping your guy. Treat him like you would
any other guy and he will not get carried away by all the appreciation
and compliments you shower on him. The best way to spoil your guy is
to make him feel that he is someone extraordinary.Assert yourself when
neededYour fondness for him does not mean that you become his 'yes
girl'. You have an independent mind and you have to assert yourself
from time to time. This will ensure that he treats you like an equal
and does not take your affection for granted.Take time off from the
relationshipOnce in a while you have to artificially create a distance
between the two of you. When you are not around all the time he will
value you more as he realizes that when you are around his life is a
lot more comfortable.Tell him your expectationsFor the relationship to
succeed both should know what they are expecting from each other. When
there is perfect balance in the give and take your relationship will
succeed.Develop an all round personalityPersonality development should
always be in the "work in progress" mode. Keep on improving so that
you become the ideal woman. When he sees that you are intelligent,
smart, loving, caring and beautiful he will stay with you for as long
as you want him to.