Knowing Yourself Is a Prerequisite to Succeed With Dates and Relationships

If by now you have tried in vain to develop a meaningful
relationship, there might be something you do wrong. In order to know
what this something is and change, you must get to know yourself
better.In order to do so, you may want to ask yourself serious
questions, which might have never crossed your mind until now. The
more questions you ask yourself and the more honest you are with your
own answers, the better you will get to know yourself and understand
how you might have sabotaged your attempts at relationships until now.
Questions you may want to ask: * Is there any reason to believe that
your way of going about meeting people and developing a relationship
is the right one?
* Is it really so that you're fine, and it is just
that you haven't met "the right person" yet? Or -
* Could it be that
there is something you do wrong?
* Do you have the courage to
honestly find out what it is that you are doing wrong?
* Do you strive
to get into a relationship out of neediness and dependency or out of a
sense of empowerment?
* Are there any fears which discourage you from
having a true relationship (such as fear of commitment, of losing your
independence, of losing control over you life)?
* Have you been hurt
in past relationships and are so cautious now that you don't give any
chance for a new relationship?
* Do you see yourself as
more-qualified, smarter, and capable than almost everyone else (and
this arrogance doesn't allow you to "fall" for another)?
* And
whichever other questions come to your mind. The courage to ask and
honestly replyThe more courage you have to ask questions you haven't
asked before and the more honest answers you provide yourself with,
the more you get to know yourself. Becoming self-aware enables you to
understand in which ways you might have shot yourself in the foot in
relationships until now and take the responsibility to change.