Since Demi and Ashton started dating the whole older woman/younger
man relationship dynamic became a lot more socially acceptable, even
if your immediate social circle disagrees. Dating a younger man can
have its advantages and good times, but also its down side as well. To
get the most out of dating a younger man, try these tips.1. While this
is certainly shallow, but then what young man isnt, before heading out
to catch your younger man, you will have to be confident and feel sexy
already. This might mean spending lots of time in the gym, buying a
few self help books, or paying for a few sessions with your friendly
psychologist. Getting your head in the game and being the type of
woman who dates younger men means that you are more likely to actually
date a younger man.2. Don't be shy. Younger men do not necessarily
have the confidence of older men, so you may have to make the first
move. Send out the subtle signal for yes and men of any age can get
it. Be careful not to overdo this signal; just as there are creepy men
out there, you could become the creepy woman at the end of the bar.3.
Don't let your age become an issue. If you treat your age as just
another number, so will he. There are two ways to go about this,
flirtatiously avoid the question and you know how to do that already,
or to just answer him outright. Either way, just be confident about
it, do not get excited about it, and hell move on to another topic.4.
Remember that he is going to be more active than men your age. This
means that he is likely to call at the last minute and want to head to
where the fun is. This could be your local club or it could be to
Atlantic City for some drinking and gambling. Be ready for it and you
might be amazed by how much fun life is.5. No little pills to perform.
Ladies, you know what I mean. Younger men can perform usually better
and more often than their older counterparts. This can mean hours or
days of fun.6. Younger men are generally more willing to take
directions from you, both in and out of the bedroom. You are sexy,
confident, and comfortable in your own skin. You know what you want,
so ask for it, with a younger man you probably will receive.7. He will
want to show you off, and you will help him make a great impression
too. This one does not necessarily benefit you, except maybe an ego
boost for you. He will want to take you to work parties, out with his
friends, and other places as well. You have the experience to know how
to act in each situation and help make everyone comfortable with the
situation.8. Unless he professes his undying love for you, takes you
home to mom and dad, and makes an appointment at the fertility clinic,
do not count on the relationship being forever. Most likely a young
man is just out for a good time but does not consider you serious
marriage material for the simple fact that they may want children and
to leave their own mark on the world.9. To keep from mooning over the
loss of #8, keep fresh numbers in your address book all the time. This
will keep your attitude light, the current relationship fresh, and if
he does leave, you will be prepared to bounce back after a pint of
chocolate mint and some romantic comedies.10. This one should be a
life rule and not just a rule for dating younger men, but take care of
you. If you need a night off to rest, take it. If you want to see an
art exhibit but your younger man doesnt, tell him that you are going,
but nicely and reasonably. Eat right, drink plenty of water, and of
course pamper yourself now and again, but you already knew all that.
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