No woman likes the fact that their man has skeletons in the closet!
Even as women find it extremely easy to tell their man everything -
they expect him to reciprocate in like manner. Here are some awesome
ways in which you can coax your man to tell you what you want to know.
Never be too inquisitive
Don't show him that you are dying to know
everything about him. Plaguing him with a hundred questions about his
past is sure to make him clam up and refuse to oblige you! Don't be
too nosy and you will make him relax in your company. He should not
feel like he is under a microscope every time you are with him. Prove
that you are completely trustworthy
It is obvious that unless he
feels that he can trust you completely, he will not tell you
everything. He will have natural fears of being rejected, hated,
laughed at and even dumped by you in case he bares his soul! All he
needs to know is that you care enough to still love him no matter what
- and he will tell you what you need to know. Don't be too willing to
let him know everything
If you have thrown caution to the winds and
let him know everything about you without waiting to see if he is as
willing to open up to you, then you can't really complain now! Don't
be too willing to tell him everything. Let him become as curious about
you as you are about him, then maybe you can exchange information!
Concentrate on raising intimacy levels
If you really get close and
intimate with him the question of hiding something from each other or
being secretive does not arise! Once you know each other better and
are deeply in love with each other, it is easy to confide in each
other. Let the relationship have a solid foundation
No relationship
can survive if there are too many secrets! If you take the time to
build a solid foundation, talking and sharing between you will come
easy! You will be able to tell him of your desires, fears, dreams and
he will do the same without wondering or being afraid of saying the
wrong thing. Make him confident of your love for him
It is a fact
that most men do not like to talk about what's happening or going on
with them. They are terribly afraid of becoming vulnerable and
therefore clam up! Make him confident of having a soul mate in you.
Make him feel safe so that he lowers his guard and opens up willingly.
Take care to listen to him
If you are going to be the one who is
always talking, there is no way you will be able to listen! When he
does open up and talk - never interrupt and try to take over the
conversation. He will refuse to talk to you if you are inattentive. Be
gentle and encouraging and he will be drawn out.
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