The society that we're all in imposes that women are supposed to
wait as men should be the ones to do the chasing. Unfortunately for
some women, they may have a bit of trouble in getting their dream guy
take notice and so they resort to doing a lot of things that they
think would endear them to the guy. The sad part is, these things that
they do often drive the guy away.Probably one of the most common
blunders made by women is to call a man incessantly. The question now
is, if you stop pestering him with your calls, will he start to really
like you?Men don't like women hovering over them.
It's plain and
simple - no person wants to be bugged. And so if you spend half of
your day calling him, this man would feel that you're too desperate -
and no one likes a desperate woman.Employ the age old technique of
playing hard-to-get.
If a man sees that you're helplessly drawn to
him, he'll feel that there's no need to chase you so he'll be lax
instead of passionate. Men drool for a good chase and so give him that
so he won't get bored with you.Ignore the guy and he'll start to miss
you.
Aren't guys just crazy? They want to chase and once they get what
they want, they move on to the next best chase. In order to have him
keep chasing you, try to ignore him from time to time. It wouldn't
hurt to ignore a call or two but just make sure that you have a good
excuse or he'll start to feel that he's not important to you at
all.He'll want to hear your mellow voice.
Aside from your winning
persona, this guy would want to hear your sweet voice if your calls
become scarce. He would surely be the one to get in touch with you if
you become silent all of a sudden.On the other hand...
He might put
you out of his mind if your calls start to dwindle.
Don't overdo the
act of ignoring his calls, though. He might just think that you really
don't want him at all and so your technique of shooing him away is to
not call him.He might think that you've already moved on to another
man.
Guys don't want to be chased but deep inside of them, they have a
need to be wanted and shown love sometimes. And so, if your calls
totally stop, he'd wonder if what you share is real or if you've now
shifted your attention to another man.He'll think that he's not your
priority.
He may also think that you're either busy with your career
or with your friends. Either way, he's not on top of your priorities
so he might let go thinking that he's not your number 1.
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