The OOMPH Factor

Forget the X Factor - do you have the Oomph factor? You know, that
fire in your belly which made you do things and step into the unknown
without as much as a backward glance.Oomph is all about vivacity,
energy and enthusiasm - but I think its more than that - it's that
little bit of something special, that 'je ne sais quoi' that just sets
some people apart from others.It's that twinkle in the eye which
differentiates the person who sticks at a job they dislike and
complains about it, from the person who seems to have endless time,
energy and courage, to get things done and make the changes when life
and work dictates.I bet everyone reading this will have, at some
stage, made New Years' resolutions, or set goals, to be more active,
to keep in touch with friends more, to do more with their children,
volunteer more - whatever your stage of life - only to see their goals
and resolutions fade away. How often have we been inspired by - envied
even - someone else's determination to make things happen and then
used a myriad of excuses as to why that couldn't or didn't happen to
us.Everyone is capable of getting that Oomph factor.Eddie Izzard
thought he could run 43 marathons in 51 days, on a diet of hot dogs
and ice cream, with hardly any training. What a Comedian! Yet he did
it. He also occasionally does his stand up show in French and German,
as well as English. Not bad for someone who was kicked off his
accountancy degree course.People with OOMPH are everywhere in our
communities - running the local football team or guides group,
organising charity events. They are the people who don't just talk
about doing things - they do things and get things done. They start
new projects. They take on things others won't. They persevere when
others give up.In business terms, OOMPH is vital if you set up on your
own, or if you're to be a successful partner or director - there's no
one around to tell you what to do or check if you've done it. You have
to have the perseverance to keep going - even in the tough and lonely
times.We recently spent a week working with a group of 10 and 11 year
old children. Their hopes and aspirations were infectious - to be an
architect, an engineer, an archaeologist, a fashion designer, to run
an animal sanctuary. They hadn't been affected by others saying "ah
yes but" or "that's so hard" or "you'll never do that". The worst one
I heard once was, "oh you'll never amount to much". That one blighted
someone's life for years.It's bad enough if others say these things to
us. But surely worse still if we learn to say them to ourselves. As a
result we stop doing things, we give up on our ambitions, we give up
on ourselves.So what is the OOMPH factor? We're convinced this is
about attitude, mind-set if you like. Therefore absolutely anyone can
have it.Whatever it is you want, start by thinking "OK, what if I
could have..... or do.....?" In this day and age many things are
possible.Then, "and what would I need to do to have..... or do.....?"
List out the things you'd need to do, for the various different ways
you might achieve it.
You then have to decide - "am I prepared to do that?"Ultimately this
is about you taking personal responsibility for achieving the things
you want - and for making a choice about whether you're prepared to
put in the work or effort it will take.And remember - success comes to
those who do the things others won't do.So no more procrastinating, no
putting things off; no feeling stuck; no waiting for others to make a
decision for you. Instead, decide and take action. Be one of those
people with OOMPH.Is it still around or haven't you seen it for
years?