Do you have doubts as to whether you should approach a guy who seems
to be way out of your league? The reason for these doubts is that you
don't really think much of yourself! This is a wrong attitude for you
to have and will only bring you disappointment and grief. Here are
some reasons what you should do to approach the guy who is out of your
league. Not unless you believe in yourself Don't even think of
approaching him until you have a positive attitude about yourself.
Believe in yourself and start loving yourself. Once you know that you
too are special and are good enough - you will be able to approach him
in a more confident manner. You will not be intimidated by him any
longer. You have a good chance if you are positive about it The more
positive you are about the outcome the better your chances are to land
him. Remember, above all he is a man and is going to be as attracted
to you as all the other guys you have known in the past. Tell yourself
that he is going to take one look at you and be interested enough to
get to know you better. Tell yourself that he is the lucky one! Don't
think that just the fact that he is so obviously wealthy makes him so
much better! If you think and behave like he is the lucky one to have
you on his arm, it will help you not to be too intimidated by him and
his assets. Remember that you have assets too - flaunt them and make
him notice how gorgeous you are. He will be interested. Find out all
you need to know about him It is advantageous to arm yourself with
knowledge about him first. This is because once you do have
information about him, you will be able to act on that knowledge and
this is sure to bring you positive results sooner or later. Find out
what he likes to do, wear, his taste in women, etc and then act
accordingly. Treat him as your equal and better your chances Don't
drool and make him know that you are thrilled to be in his company. If
you fall over yourself and make him realize that you are absolutely
smitten by him, he may tend to treat you like he does all those other
women who are "too easy"! Instead pretend that he did not impress you
much and you will instantly capture his interest and imagination.
Don't show him that you are intimidated by him Never show him that you
are thrilled to be in the company of a man who was obviously born with
a silver spoon in his mouth! It is also obvious that he is used to
getting what he wants, so it is a good idea to play hard to get. It
will whet his appetite and want to know you better. Pursue him for the
right reasons Whatever you do, you have to make sure that you pursue
him for all the right reasons. If you are genuinely attracted to him,
then go ahead and pursue him in a subtle manner. If it is only his
wealth and status that has attracted you to him, then you should know
that he is bound to find out sooner or later! You won't be able to
fool him for long!
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