How to Approach Women - 3 Tips on Approaching Women in Clubs and Bars

The club and bar scene can be like a double edged sword for most
guys. You see that there are a lot of beautiful women all around you,
and yet it can seem pretty intimidating to just walk up to one and
start a conversation. That's why most guys end up standing against the
wall, hanging out at the bar, and basically avoiding the whole point
of going out - to meet women. That does not have to be the way that
the night plays out for you, though. Instead, you can be one of the
few guys that knows how to approach a woman in bars and clubs and get
a phone number, a date, and hopefully a little more.Here are 3 quick
tips on how to approach a woman in a bar or a club and make a good
impression:1. When you walk over to a woman, make sure that your body
language signals that you are confident.Women don't fantasize about
having some nervous guy walking over to them, awkwardly striking up a
conversation and making them feel like they just want to get away.
Yet, that is how most guys end up coming off when they approach a
woman in bars and clubs. You need to keep your body language in check
and make sure that she gets the impression that you are a confident
guy.2. It's okay to start off with small talk, but you need to build
up a little more.Talking to a woman in a club can be tough, especially
when the music is loud, you are wondering what the right thing to say
is, and you don't have a whole lot of time to make an impression on
her. Just start off with some casual and light small talk, and then
build up to more. You need to build rapport with her, she has to feel
some kind of a connection, so look for something in common that you
can build on.3. Get her out on the dance floor with you.Dancing with a
woman for just a few minutes will do more for you then trying to talk
your way into making her want you. Get her out on the dance floor. IF
you are not a good dancer, it's okay. Just the fact that you are
willing to get her out there is usually more than enough to build up
enough initial attraction that she will want to get to know more of
you. Just make sure you don't end up groping her.