Making a man need you more than you needing him will call for a lot
of maturity on your part. You can't act like a school girl that is in
awe of him and expect him to need you more than you need him. You will
have to act your age and at times more than your current age. Here is
how you can do it.Eliminate your weak pointsSure you are not perfect
but you can always strive to be perfect. When you eliminate all your
weaknesses you win half the battle. However, don't brag about you
being near perfect just be happy that you could do it.Conscious effort
to look and feel goodTake your health seriously and don't give up your
workouts or other sporting activities. This will keep you in good
shape and you will look far younger than your stated age. No man will
lose interest in his girl if she continues to remain
beautiful.Fiercely guard your independenceYou were independent before
you fell in love with him and now that he is in your life there is no
reason to rely on him for everything. The moment you put him on a
pedestal and begin to depend on his advice and counsel, he will start
getting ideas. Take your own decisions and don't look up to him for
guidance.Space out your meetingsYou love this guy and wish to be with
him all the time. However, you will need to control yourself and
maintain a distance so that his need for you grows. Do not meet him
regularly but do stay in touch through phone and email.Stay connected
with your friendsRely on your close friends for emotional and moral
support. You can also seek their counsel in times of difficulty. This
way you don't have to depend on your guy. A large friend circle will
ensure that your social life does not revolve around your guy.Remain
unavailable at timesDon't jump and accept all his dates. Cancel a few
stating your busy schedule or prior appointments. This will show that
you have a life outside the relationship and he will get the message
that you don't need him as much.Loosen your purse stringsMake sure
that you too spend on him when you date. When you are financially
independent you don't have to tow his line all the time. He too will
feel good about the fact that he is dating a woman that does not
confirm to the stereotype.
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