You have realized that you love him and want him as your lover and
not a friend. The only thing is that you don't know how to reveal your
feelings without seeming too forward and making a fool of yourself.
Here are some simple but very effective ways of making him reciprocate
your feelings. Build a unique and strong connection
Take advantage of
the friendship between you and build on that foundation. Build a
strong connection so that he starts to notice certain qualities in you
that are extremely exciting and attractive. This will make him look at
you differently and he will begin to like you as more than just a
casual friend. Spend some terrific moments together
The more he
enjoys your company, the more chances you have of him falling in love
with you. Make him see that you can be more than just a good friend.
Make him cherish the moments you spend together and so that he begins
to miss you when you are not around! Wait till he begins to "feel" it
himself instead of pushing
Don't be in too much of a hurry to get him
to date you or see you as someone who is more than a casual friend.
Bide your time till you see good opportunities that will help you to
make him aware of you in a different manner. Wait for him to start
getting attracted to you physically before you push it! Don't put him
on the spot!
The worst thing you could do is make him embarrassed by
your pursuit. Give him the time he needs to "see" you as someone more
special than just an acquaintance or friend. If you make a play for
him without waiting till you see some sign of interest from him, you
will put him on the stop and he will resent you for that! Turn his
feelings of attraction into feelings of deep intimacy
It is only when
you find that he is getting more attracted to you, you can hope to
take it further! Wear the type of clothes that makes him notice your
sexual appeal - something he did not do when you were just a casual
friend! Bombard his senses and make him extremely aware of you.
Convince him that you are his best choice
Before you can think of
making him crazy about you, you should endeavor to be his closest
friend and confidante. This will give you the opportunity of spending
special moments of intimacy with him. The more he begins to trust you
with his thoughts the more open he will be towards deepening the
friendship into something deeper and more meaningful. Become even more
amazing and unique
Okay, all this while you came across as a great
buddy and friend with whom he could be himself, but that does not mean
that he is going to elevate you to the post of girlfriend in a hurry.
He has to notice certain things and qualities about you that will make
you irresistible and enticing so make sure he does!
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