One of the hardest things that a guy can do is to work up the nerve
to approach a woman. Every guy knows this, and every guy has to deal
with this at some point in their lives. Even the guys that appear to
be naturals, guys that can approach any woman they want at some point
had to deal with this issue. The only difference between them and you
is, they found a way to handle that hesitation and get past it.Here
are some tips on how you can confidently approach a woman:1. First of
all, realize that women face the same hesitation, only it's in being
approached.Women are not expected to walk up to a guy they like, we
all know this. Still, they do feel some hesitation when they are
approached by a guy. See, they have to deal with all of the jerks, the
guys that act so nervous they make them nervous, and the guys twice
their age that they would never even think of dating. Just realizing
that they feel their own hesitation about being approached should make
it seem a little less intimidating, which should make it easier to
actually walk on over to her.2. Second, you have to know that women do
like to be approached by the right guys.If you were an attractive
woman and you had to deal with all kinds of guys trying to talk to you
and hit on you, wouldn't it be a welcomed thing when a guy approached
you that knew what he was doing and made you feel comfortable around
him? Of course it would. When you have the right game, meaning, you
know what women respond to... they like to be approached by guys like
you. Don't ever think that you are going to be an annoyance or a
bother to her, because you will be like a breath of fresh air.3.
Third, you need to be able to open a conversation with a woman, and to
do this, you need to make sure that it comes off as natural and not
staged.Ever see all of those dating reality shows where guys learn and
trade pick up lines with each other? Guess what? So have most of the
women that you probably want to step to. So, if you use one of those
lines, she's going to know where it came from and she's going to think
that you are just another wannabe pick up artist. Women don't usually
respond to that very well. So, if you want to open a conversation with
a woman, you need to be able to make it seem natural, like something
that any guy would say to her. She lets her guard down when you do
this, and that makes it easier for you to actually get somewhere with
her.
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